{"id":1281,"date":"2010-10-12T12:29:49","date_gmt":"2010-10-12T17:29:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cottrillcompass.com\/blog\/?p=1281"},"modified":"2010-10-12T12:29:49","modified_gmt":"2010-10-12T17:29:49","slug":"hit-songs-and-carwashes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cottrillcompass.com\/blog\/2010\/hit-songs-and-carwashes.html","title":{"rendered":"Hit Songs and Carwashes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>This morning I was doing some errands<\/b>, and I was thinking about some of the ways we prepare people who are coming to Mexico short term. &nbsp;I was thinking that maybe we should tell them how they can learn to <i>look away<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>You might not be surprised that magazine stands are a good place <i>not<\/i> to look, but would you expect <i>car washes<\/i>? &nbsp;Let me tell you, more often than not car wash signs are just not appropriate to look at.<\/p>\n<p><b>Not too long ago we had a &quot;situation&quot;<\/b> where our daughter ended up with a written copy of a song that was immoral in the extreme. &nbsp;I won&#8217;t go into details about how she got it or what the song was (but I can say it wasn&#8217;t her fault).<\/p>\n<p><b>But this led me to wonder what sorts of songs kids are listening to here in Mexico.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Rather than analyze all the popular music that&#8217;s out there, I stuck to English songs. &nbsp;I didn&#8217;t trust myself to catch the subtleties and double-meanings in Spanish.<\/p>\n<p>This isn&#8217;t totally fair, of course, since people&#8217;s English is liable to be limited to only a few words. &nbsp;So these songs are often listened to because they&#8217;re just catchy, or popular elsewhere.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, some people <i>do<\/i> understand the words. &nbsp;Also, they&#8217;re looking at the videos, which means they get the gist.<\/p>\n<p>And many English songs do make the &quot;top 10&quot; here in Mexico.<\/p>\n<table width=\"210\" align=\"right\">\n<tr>\n<td><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cottrillcompass.com\/images\/hit-music.jpg\" width=\"200\" height=\"266\" hspace=\"5\" vspace=\"5\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Hit Music?\" \/><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/table>\n<p>So, I took the top 30 or 40 songs from the last month or so, and listed some interesting facts about them. &nbsp;How many of these songs would be appropriate, say, for our children?<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s what I found:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>44% were directly about sex.<\/b> &nbsp;We&#8217;re not talking subtle language or symbolism here &#8211; almost <i>half<\/i> of the hit songs were just plain and simple blatant detailed blunt graphic descriptions.<\/li>\n<li>If you include songs that were <i>very<\/i> explicit on the same topic, the number goes up to <b>64%<\/b>. &nbsp;That means that, if a child is listening to hit songs (and they do listen), more than 6 out of 10 that they here will be <i>very<\/i> graphic.<\/li>\n<li>If you get a little more subtle and include songs with some sexual reference, we easily get to <b>73%<\/b>. &nbsp;Most often these songs are describing or promoting immorality.<\/li>\n<li>But what about just plain sensuality in the song <i>and\/or<\/i> in the video? &nbsp;Now we&#8217;re up to <b>88%<\/b>. &nbsp;That&#8217;s almost 9 songs out of 10.<\/li>\n<li>Now I actually didn&#8217;t include some other things that parents might be concerned about. &nbsp;For example, <b>12% <\/b>of the songs included swearing. &nbsp;<b>21%<\/b> mentioned drugs, drunkenness and smoking (we&#8217;re talking clear abuse)<\/li>\n<li>There were other topics included in this list, such as torture, violence, and plain old blasphemy.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Out of all the songs, maybe 3-6 songs out of a hundred didn&#8217;t have any of the above objectionable material (well, if you don&#8217;t watch the video, that is).<\/p>\n<p>Now before you run out and tell all your friends how terrible Mexico is, go get a top ten list from your country and see how it compares. &nbsp;Just a hint &#8211; you might want to read some descriptions of the music videos instead of actually <i>watching<\/i> them all. &nbsp;But, of course, the question is &#8211; what are your children, friends, and others around you watching?<\/p>\n<p>What are <i>you<\/i> and <i>I<\/i> watching and listening to?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This morning I was doing some errands, and I was thinking about some of the ways we prepare people who are coming to Mexico short term. &nbsp;I was thinking that maybe we should tell them how they can learn to look away. 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