{"id":805,"date":"2008-08-13T09:15:45","date_gmt":"2008-08-13T14:15:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cottrillcompass.com\/blog\/?p=805"},"modified":"2008-08-13T09:15:45","modified_gmt":"2008-08-13T14:15:45","slug":"teaching-children-respect-and-conviction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cottrillcompass.com\/blog\/2008\/teaching-children-respect-and-conviction.html","title":{"rendered":"Teaching children respect and conviction&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>To explain all the ins and outs of what happened around here yesterday would simply take too long. &nbsp;But let&#8217;s just say that some events really brought a lot of important issues together &#8211; family, ministry, eternity, culture.<\/p>\n<p>Now let me say this up front &#8211; we don&#8217;t have children who walk around with halos, who look to heaven frequently and say profound spiritual missionaryish things in Old English. &nbsp;Of course we try to teach our kids intentionally and carefully (of course we often do less than we should), but sometimes we wonder how much is sinking in.<\/p>\n<p>So how do you teach your children to have convictions about the truth, and yet to respect others who don&#8217;t share those convictions? &nbsp;Especially when the children are so young, and really can&#8217;t understand so many of the implications of what goes on around them?<\/p>\n<p>I remember being around Hannah&#8217;s age (she&#8217;s 7), when I was really starting to sort out and interpret the world around me. &nbsp;At that age I really wanted to understand things on my own, and had to be gently corrected when I got the wrong idea from what I saw. &nbsp;Of course, that&#8217;s a process that goes on the rest of your life!<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re proud of Nathanael and Hannah. &nbsp;We&#8217;ve seen them at various times show that they care about people, that they&#8217;re developing their own convictions, and that they really do want to share what they learn with their friends. &nbsp;They&#8217;re also beginning to understand how important they are in God&#8217;s eyes, and more key &#8211; how important God is.<\/p>\n<p>So now, how do we teach them how to interact with the ideas of others? &nbsp;To learn from others, and yet be bold to share their own ideas? &nbsp;To share with &quot;meekness&quot; and not out of pride (1 Peter 3:15)? &nbsp;To observe the behaviour of others without imitating it when it&#8217;s inappropriate?<\/p>\n<p>And how do we teach them when these are all things we&#8217;re still struggling with ourselves?<\/p>\n<p>Yes, we&#8217;re fellow travellers with our children. &nbsp;And sometimes the children lead (Matthew 21:12-16)&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To explain all the ins and outs of what happened around here yesterday would simply take too long. &nbsp;But let&#8217;s just say that some events really brought a lot of important issues together &#8211; family, ministry, eternity, culture. 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