Talking about Homework (at the schools). (audio)
Today we went to Hannah’s and Nathanael’s schools to talk to the “powers that be” about homework. Listen to find out what happened…
Today we went to Hannah’s and Nathanael’s schools to talk to the “powers that be” about homework. Listen to find out what happened…
It was really all God’s fault. After all, He’s the one that makes them grow. If it hadn’t been for that, we wouldn’t have been so concerned.
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Shari and I were having a conversation two or three months ago. The problem was that Hannah and Nathanael didn’t have enough clothes. Sure, sometimes clothes get wrecked, but frankly kids of 4 and 7 tend to grow quickly, and pretty soon the pants that used to fit Hannah were shorts, and Nathanael’s long sleeve sweater had become short sleeve (which was tight enough to show his rippling muscles).
So what were we going to do about it? Well, we didn’t have a lot of extra cash. We planned to make some adjustments to the budget so that in months ahead we could save up extra for some clothes. That might not help right away, but hopefully it would help in 2009. But would it be enough?
And God watched our conversation. Was He chuckling? Frustrated? Waving His hands, trying to get our attention so He could tell us to go read Luke 12:22-34?
Well, whatever He was doing, He had a plan. Suddenly, over December and January, we started to get covered by an avalanche of clothes. Hand-me-downs from family in Canada. Gifts from friends and family. Then someone came down from the USA, after doing some bargain-hunting, with yet more clothes. And I understand there are more clothes that someone sent that are on their way.
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Unbelievable (at least to those of us with little faith).
So thank you to all of you who were so thoughtful! You have no idea how perfect the timing was. Thanks!
We’ll still need our “budget tweaks” to buy a few specific things we’re still missing, but we’re sure a lot better off than we thought we would be a couple of months ago. And Hannah and Nathanael are really enjoying their new clothes that actually fit (who said kids don’t like getting clothes as gifts?).
So, note to self. Don’t worry about clothes. Do you think God doesn’t care? Do you think He’s not paying attention?
Really, now. Time to get a proper perspective.
I’ve been promising to write more about Hannah and Nathanael’s homework, so you can get a little glimpse of our … umm … challenge…
Here’s the basic idea. Hannah and Nathanael get home from school, and at least Nathanael usually has a short rest (he gets home first). Then we have comida, our mid-day meal usually around 3pm. After that? Homework.
After homework, bed.
That’s right, it often goes right into the evening, and even then it doesn’t always get all done.
So what kinds of homework do they get? Well, there is some variety, though a favourite involves cutting and pasting, or copying.
Take for example Hannah’s spelling assignments. She had a list of 10 words (in Spanish, of course, but words like: guitar, seagull, shawl, ravine…). Then she had to find the word in a magazine or newspaper, and cut out the article.
One day Hannah came home with these instructions: Make and bring a mermaid puppet for tomorrow.
Really? Out of what? How big? What for? Apparently everyone else knew what was expected… but we’re not as experienced as the general public in making mermaid puppets.
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Nathanael will come home with homework for 3-4 subjects, a couple of pages each subject. What kind of homework do they give a 4 year old? Well, favourites are cutting and pasting, and writing. Write an entire page of "H". Cut and paste pictures of solids, liquids, and gases. Write your full name 7 times. As I write this he’s outlining his first and second name with plasticine (one of the more interesting assignments – but it’s taking a long time – he was bored after "h").
As I mentioned with the mermaid thing, we don’t always understand what’s expected. All right, almost every day we don’t understand something or other. Apparently after a year and a half of Spanish homework, we still have lots to learn. Thankfully, we have friends and neighbours who help us … frequently … over and over … such as Mayra Fry – thanks, Mayra!
Last week Hannah came home with ingredients she needed for an elective she takes once a week. They were ingredients we didn’t recognize, and as it turns out we had to buy them at a type of shop we didn’t know existed! Of course, all on top of the regular homework and due the next day.
We’re not the only ones frustrated with the amount of homework – our neighbours (many of whom have kids too) feel the same way. And often they don’t know what the teachers are asking for either! But of course we have an extra challenge not being from "around here". Plus, Hannah is doing a couple of courses in English – when is she supposed to do that? And “playing”? I think they did that a little over the holidays, that should do for a few months, right?
Anyway, this isn’t supposed to be a complaining post. The frustration certainly goes up and down. But we are looking for new ways to try to handle what is really not working right now. And I know some of you have been curious about exactly what kind of challenge the homework is here.
Hopefully that helps you understand a bit more the nature of our Nemesis.
For a couple posts from the previous school year regarding homework, check out Kids at school and vine sheets and Doing our kids’ homework
I know you’ve been going through extreme withdrawal after my almost-daily posting in December and early January! I didn’t mean to go cold turkey there, but we’ve been busy with some projects and I haven’t had much time to post.
There are two major things we’ve been busy with, aside from the general business of life. First, I’ve been working on something for CAM – a website, which Lord willing I can tell you about in a few days. We’re just working through a few more things before we launch it. Today I met with Bryan Smith from Querétaro and Rod Fry from Ixtapaluca, and we talked with Scott Yinging on the phone, and got together some great ideas for the site.
Also, we’re trying to get our plans together for the year ahead. I got together with Rod earlier this week, and the men of our church met together Thursday night, and the women of the church have also been meeting and planning.
Lord willing we’ll get together with the Frys, and also some other cohorts here in Mexico, in the days and weeks ahead for even more planning.
As you might imagine, we’re ready to get past all this planning and into more action! But it’s helpful to look at the year ahead, and we would appreciate your prayers as we make decisions for the next few months.
This planning involves not only some of our week to week goals, but decisions like – what we’ll do after our orientation year ends (this summer), decisions regarding Hannah and Nathanael’s school next year (and adjustments to what we’re doing this year), and how we’ll work together with a team of people in this part of Mexico.
Other than that – the busy-ness of life! Which has been no small thing in itself. We continue to struggle with our kids’ homework schedule – I would like to write more of an explanation about that later, but we would appreciate your prayers.
But some good news – we got an armoire kind of furniture thingme for Hannah’s room! That will be a big help, since she has no closet or dresser. So our quest to have a "fully" set up house continues. Next? Get something so we don’t have to sleep on a mattress on the floor (as you may recall, our box spring didn’t fit up the stairs), and some curtains (although thanks to Grandpa Winger we now have an actual blind on one of our windows! (He also fixed another leak – thanks!)).
Our church worship music band is also getting back into the swing of things, meeting for some sharing and prayer on Saturdays, and to practise of course. Prayer meeting was great this week. Yes, lots going on…. which reminds me…. I’m tired…. gotta go….
Many people are surprised to hear Mexico talked about as a war zone. But conflicts in the state of Oaxaca, as well as the war with drug cartels, are not news to the people living here. Little by little, the world is taking notice.
The Los Angeles Times recently put up a page summarizing the latest news on the drug war in Mexico. Taking a look at the page, you’ll see it’s not small news – since the CBC article was published…
Now I don’t write this so you’ll fear for our safety – that’s in God’s hands as always. But I do want to let you know what people are thinking about here, and this is a big one.
Everyday the newspapers bring news of violence, executions, government officials suspected of corruption, kidnappings, and a government trying to deal with it all. Just a few days ago I heard another report – that the three most dangerous countries for journalists are – Iraq, India and Mexico!
Of course we believe that there is Good News that can bring people hope and change lives. That should be your prayer for the millions of Mexico (roughly 110,600,000 people live in Mexico now).
But we also need to pray for peace and justice (1Tim 2:1-4). Though fear can drive people to the Lord, the violence can also hinder the progress of the Gospel (humanly speaking!), and people need to hear the Gospel before they can respond (Rom 10:11-17).
So as you remember Mexico in 2009, pray that God would bring peace and justice, and that the Gospel would spread as never before. Mexico needs your prayers – Remember Mexico!
Thanks to ¡Pure Vida! for the link to the LA Times article.
I thought my Canadian friends might be interested in this. I went to the mall – actually, two malls, here in town on the 26th of December. They were open. But they were dead. Not too many people around. Nice and peaceful, actually. Never seen them so quiet.
As I walked out in a parking lot, thinking how different things probably were in Canada, I glanced down and saw a licence plate that said Beautiful British Columbia (I don’t think I’ve ever seen another Canadian plate here in Ixtapaluca, except people we know)!
I guess old habits die hard – that mall has probably never seen such a high percentage of Canadians!
I wasn’t at the mall looking for deals, I was actually getting what I hope will be the last prescribed drugs I need for a while. I’ve been fighting some kind of stomach thing since before conference (at the end of November). I was actually quite sick at conference, then got a little better, then worse again.
Anyway, after several doctor’s visits, I think I’m on the mend. The doctor things I’m probably somewhat undernourished after all that time, so he’s got me on some super-vitamins for a while. Between that and the turkey, I should do fine… 😉