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  1. Patricia Dwyer
    10 November 2008 @ 9:47 pm

    An interesting article Jim. But how do we REALLY know where God wants us or what he wants us to do? Whatever he asks….. I am not sure alot of the time what he IS asking. There are so many places to serve here and in the world and so many not serving at all. I am just thinking out loud:)

  2. Amrita
    10 November 2008 @ 9:52 pm

    You ‘ve hit the nail right on hehead Jim.

    Before setting out to cross the seven seas Missionaries should really prepare themselves in all areas of their lives. Frontier missionaries have to face tough conditions.

    I ‘ve seen some leave as they couldn ‘t it, others just couldn ‘t leave, they stayed on, even their children.

    Thank you for sending me the photo graphics link.

  3. Greg Neufeld
    11 November 2008 @ 11:13 pm

    Excellent observation Jim. I have had those thoughts occasionally over the past 9 years so I can relate. Thanks!

  4. Andrew Agnew
    13 November 2008 @ 8:51 am

    I have been reading in the Evangelical Missions Quarterly about that very thing recently. Humm, well, we’ll be in touch soon. God bless.

  5. Greg Millsaps (via Facebook)
    14 November 2008 @ 7:20 am

    Very good thoughts, Jim. I find that the concept of self-actualization (pursue your dreams…be anything you want) and the emphasis on maximizing one’s “potential” are such “gringo” ideas in the first place. When I talk like that and get super self-absorbed (which I do), it perplexes my Mexican friends and they tell me, “tranquilo!” because to them it’s really more about just being obedient.

    Also, after being out of your culture for years you begin to not be so savvy about your own culture. Even with the internet and all the means of communication we still aren’t current on all the latest sayings, new words, lingo, styles, fashions, etc. You see the contrast most starkly when you host teams – it becomes very clear that you’ve now caught between two cultures. Forever separated from the host culture (because, face it, we’re NOT Latinos) and at the same time strangely alienated from our own culture. Welcome to the Twilight Zone!

  6. Jim
    17 November 2008 @ 2:14 pm

    Thanks for all your great thoughts!

    There are a lot of questions in your comment, Patricia. I think a big question is, why wouldn’t God make things more “clear”? One answer may be that He wants to share His will in relationship – with Him and His people.

    Of course, when people get married they don’t hand each other a comprehensive and permanent list of everything they want out of the marriage. Marriage is a relationship – growing, and learning to serve the other person out of love. I think finding God’s will is a similar thing.

    Maybe I should write a whole other post on knowing God’s will. “Books have been written” as the saying goes. But in the context of what I wrote here, I think an important part of knowing God’s will is finding it together in a community of committed, Bible believing Christians. That may mean putting aside, at times, what we think is best for ourselves, and working together with a group.

    Another thing to remember is that, if we’re studying and learning God’s Word in the community, and obeying what we know, we’re probably going to be fine. It’s not like 10% of God’s will is in His Word and the rest we have to guess on. If we’re following His Word, I don’t think we’re going to really blow it. Of course part of that is the Great Commission, and I think often times we do blow it – all of us.

    Long comment! I’ll reply to the rest in another comment. 😉

  7. Jim
    17 November 2008 @ 2:19 pm

    Amrita – certainly preparation is a factor. Just read an interesting article on the topic – Why Some Missionaries Don’t Plant Churches. Check it out.

    Greg and Andrew – thanks to you too! Good to know that people are thinking and talking about these things. Which EMQ were you reading?

  8. Jim
    17 November 2008 @ 4:45 pm

    Greg M – thanks for your comments too!

    You make it sound like missionaries aren’t good for anything else after a while! 😉 Of course, if that’s the way it needs to be that’s fine. But I tend to think the “Twilight Zone” is a great place to learn.

    Great points, though. And I think this concept of “self-actualization” is not only gringo, but Canadian too, though maybe to a lesser degree.

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